(132) Loss is not a loss

Losing is not a loss always. When your loss is the gain of someone you respect and care for, then the loss is worth accepting and appreciating. Nevertheless, pain does exist, but then no happiness has ever come out without churning the dearies. I always feared losses and they often devasted me. Gradually I learnt to confront them though the suffering still existed. But now, today, I somehow, feel that losing is not that bad really. And ofcourse, whether its truly a loss or not is also to be justified. On face of it , it might seem troublesome to let loose what you had held for long, and would have never given up for anything, but once you realise how serene it feels to give away your closest for someone and to someone who is important than everything else, you dont feel that empty anymore.
                          However, being human is in itself the sign of arising disconnect when deprived of the dearest behelds, but then, the greatest spiritual acheivements too are the gadgets of human minds. So, it needs time to realize and accepting nature to learn to feel content.
                         Ups and Downs are eminent to any process, be it life or a movie. Given a point of time, I may feel like securing everything and everyone I love, in an unbreakable unit, but even that would not stay for long and I would be taught the same lesson of acceptance and forgiveness, but by the other means.
                        Accepting with dignity dignifies your decisions and helps you sustain the effects of the losses. and gradually you decode how beautiful it had been to sacrifice your dearest and how meaningful and fulfilling your losses proved for everyone.