(267) Thank you & love you Rishika!!

I am posting the words written by a dear friend Rishika who came into my life not very long ago, but has undoubtedly become a beautiful part of it and a dear darling to me.She happens to be my younger brother's friend but is now a friend to me as well.
This post is dedicated to her but is also being written with one same old selfish motive..that is..to keep for my records and memories so that I can refer to and feel uplifted in my dark times.lotsa love to you sweetheart.

Here goes the beautiful words by her and with her due permission...copy pasted as it is..




"[3:50PM, 15/02/2015] Rishika Chakraborty: Hey didsu...

[4:29PM, 15/02/2015] Rishika Chakraborty: Apse bahut sari baat kehni h...d sole reason for y we got to know each other is ur poems...but  over d time i have realised that gradually instead of reading ur poems I read ur blog posts...specially the ones on seekingcerebralimmunity....I have become addicted to reading those even if I have so much work piled up for d day....I have read all ur posts starting from ur first love to d one which u wrote just few days back....I felt as if I actually lived all those moments just like u did...whether it b about riding a bike without informing anyone and leaving everyone left with no other option to search for u....or ur childhood days...or ur love for short hair and later charvie's love for ur long hair...or d moments u struggled wid nishka's demand for seeing her father that very moment....every moment....

Bt to tell u d truth...I have started luvng u be oz of d positivity which u have for lyf...each post of urs ends wid d lessons which u learnt from that very incident...

While reading ur posts I cud relate my lyf in many ways...I had tears in my eyes becoz I cud easily understand wat u must have gone through in those tough moments ...ur luv fr family...ur fears as a daughter...ur concern fr ur brother...d moments wen u wer missing ur mom...

Wat I have analysed is that whatever may b d situation..howsoever tough it was...u tried to find d goodness in d same...I salute that approach and spirit of urz...d way u luk at lyf...

May god bless u  and give u d opportunity to c a day when ppl will cm and introduce u by saying, "Come, meet the proud mother of two extraordinary professionals and most importantly two most wonderful human beings Charvie and Nishka...!!"

I don't know whether I will b there to witness 
That moment...bt us din ap mujhe yaad karna...and beliv me...that day will surely come into ur lyf...my blessing for both of them...

Love...love...love....for such a wonderful person I know...its u...my Mita di😘

[4:47PM, 15/02/2015] Rishika Chakraborty: I always beliv that important words r to b said...I shud not sit and regret that I didn't say wat I felt...I fear this feeling...

That is y I am writing this to u...Meri iccha thi ki mai apse ye sab kuch kahu tab ap mere samne ho...taki mai apke expressions dekh saku...apke India ane se pehle roz mai Chetan ko ek hi question puch puch k pareshan karti hi ki didi kab ayegi..aur apke ane k baad ki didi ko lekar kab ghar aoge...unfortunately we didn't get much tym to talk...but still...don't forget...I luv u..."

(266) Live life before life leaves you

Disclaimers:

Ø  This has not been written with an intention to preach anyone.

Ø  It’s a self reminder kind of thing about beliefs I held all through, with a hope to help others who may find similitude with my thought process.

While browsing through net, I stumbled upon an Indian obituary website, where again by chance I learned about the demise of one of my ex colleague from past beyond nine years. If not for this site, my memory had completely erased his being from my mind, as I had conversed with him only on a very professional stratum. Yet, a glimpse of his posted picture, strikingly reminded me of his ever smiling face, cheerful conduct with everyone on the floor, and the obviously visible zest in his maneuver towards life, career and dreams to grow big. He passed away in 2013, and he was about 37 years of age as mentioned in the details.

So, if I had to die at the same age, what am I left with right now? A few years on my hand versus thousands of plans to be executed. Am sure, he would have been the same, and for that matter everyone of us, living in this times are somewhat akin, when it comes to performing the act called life.

It is not at all wrong to be ambitious, or to carve out the future plan, but it is equally important to live the life we have in present. In the race to compete with fellows, we stop looking at the blessings we are bestowed with, and eventually we start living lives on autopilot, with bodies doing mechanism, brains running directed chores, and soul wandering and struggling to find life amidst this chaos.

I strongly believe and always tell my people, my family, closest friends that life is in this very moment. Live it to the fullest with being the best person possible. But to confess myself and as mentioned by my loved ones, I often fail to follow my own principles, I give into the pressures of life, think more than necessary, worry for things which may really never ever happen, get annoyed and irritable, lose faith and at times act in not so affable ways. Basically, I forget to live, to enjoy what I am conferred with and directly or indirectly it not only impacts me, but also  people around me and the relationships I share with them.

Sharing some views, that I think, if put in practice, will undeniably make life more meaningful and fulfilling.

·         Be grateful for what all you have and be more giving, help the needy, we are not going to take anything with us when we leave for good, except for the love and blessings we have earned.

·         Be more forgiving, kick off that ego, don’t hold grudges against others for long. Don’t talk bad about others as far as possible. Apologize for your mistakes & try to assemble broken bonds, but don’t hell bend on doing so, maintain self respect, give your best and leave on the other person and time to decide.  God never gives you the challenge you can’t handle. Be optimistic.

·         I  believe, “whatever happens, happens for good”. So do your karma, the best possible one and leave unto the universe and the energies within to respond to your deeds. All that is meant for you will definitely come to you. Have faith, have patience.

·         Life is very unpredictable. Before the call for the godly abode strikes on you without notice, make sure you have lived a life you would feel thankful for, you have done enough for your fellows known and unknown, you have done your bit to support the survival of your mother earth, mother nature.

·         Don’t keep things for tomorrow. Do all that you like. Complete  that pending special holiday, dress up the way you like, read your favorite books, sing, dance, jump, eat, paint, yell, drink, get drenched in the rains, skid on the snow, ride that bike, kiss all you want, fall in love, make love, embrace life with open arms….don’t stress if you are not able to do everything you wish for..but at-least..give it a try! Believe me..it’s worth it!

·         Love is the greatest tool, boon, art, aid, sense, ability, gift, honor and blessing that we all have been bestowed upon by the very nature which gave us birth. Let us all be more loving, kind, generous, grateful, helpful and add more values to our own lives and to the ones that thrives around us. Propagate enough love and disseminate it in everything you do, it’ll keep you alive even after you are gone.

There’s still a lot I would wanna talk, but may be some other time. Perhaps, I am turning quite emotional at this moment. So I end here for now by sharing a video on a girl who died two days after it was shot. Don’t miss it my friends, please do watch it!!

Aisha

With Loads of Love..Mita