It is so typically human to feel upset when you loose someone close to heart. Pain is inevitable and discomfort is unavoidable. But, no time stays forever. Think, recall and then decide, has not been there bigger trouble and losses in life earlier that you have been through, stayed with, fought against, cried for and then gradually slipped into acceptance, survival, serenity and back to living.
Most of the times, it turns out to be understood at a later stage, at the time when the storm has settled down, that the entire drama was been held up just for your own good. Though it took your tears as your participation fees, but it gave back a wonderful show to you, it all made seemingly worth to you. Fair enough, if it says so, if it does so.
However, not most, but often, the chaos that we go through, the turbulence that we live through, also occur in our lives for good of those people who are attached with us,with our beings, with our lives. And if they are someone close to you, your loved ones, then it more aptly may happen so that you go through all the pain, as your contribution to your loved ones life for making it better. This at times, may even take that person away from you, for time being, or forever,but you need to believe in it, and have faith, that if something thus has occurred, it has happened for some good. What big deal in it, if your pain of not having them with you is just being paid as a price for their happiness. Is it a big thing to give for getting peace, love and smiles in your loved ones life. No, not at all. Isn't the feeling so fulfilling to see them happy, settled, peaceful and content.
If you look at it with this perspective, then definitely you will not feel their dearth in life, rather you will feel glad to be taken away from their as a step towards their happiness. Accept it, and move on!!
That way,you not only make yourself peaceful, but also send that peace through the vibes to the other person as well....
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